DO NOT BE AFRAID OF CHANGES!

Changes. How seriously it sounds. But at the same time a little bit intriguing or maybe frightfully? So many people are  fed up of the life, of how they look, how they feel and what they do. They are irritated and bored. They want to change something but at the same time they are so scared that they can't. Instead of it they are still looking for new excuses and justificationes. They say that they are to young and there will be time in the future or that they are too old and that it doesn't make any sense. And they exist, yes exist because it's hard to call it life. They exist letting to be devoured by their dreams. But there is nothing wrong about changes! On the contrary, they help us discover who we really are and what we want to do. They help us to become succesful and happy. And I'm not talking about huge, serious decisions like moving away to the end of the world. I'm talking about little one, little steps which will make us closer to our goals. For example; you want to lose weight. Do not start restrictive diet and don't go to the gim seven times a week. That will make that after some time you will be fed up, you will throw everything and you will come back to unhealthy lifestyle. Start from small change; reduce sweets, and go walking more often. You won't even notice when healthy habits become your integral part of life. Do small challenges which you  will truly be able to deal with and they won't exceeded your opportunities. Themselves they are small but combain all together will lead you to the desired success.

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Live your life

Live your  life. Such a  simple  words and yet so underrated. One of the biggest problem of people these days is continuous comparison to others. To friends, familly, celebities. From an early age parents instill children that idea weakening their self-confidence and self-esteem. Everyday we compare our appearance, behavior or decisions. We try to become like someone else. Someone who for some reason seems to us better, smarter, ideal. But there are no perfect people- another simple statement which we also still forget. We forget that photos of supermodels are retouched million times before they appear on the front pages of newspapers. We forget that eloquently sounding  politicians statements are arranged by the staff of educated people. We forget that celebrities life which is wonderfully described in the gossip newspapers is an ordinary fake. And in all this we forget about us. About the fact tak we are the only of it’s kind, exceptional and inimitable. About the fact that every of us is different, live differently and do different things and this makes the world  beautiful. These differences between us make it interesting. Live your life! Live in harmony with you, be confident and do not forget that your life is your card and you write it down.

Live without limits

Limitations, lmitations, limitations. Everybody have some. Bigger, smaller but there are. There are but in our’s brains which means that we and we alone have control over them. no one else. Only we. But what they really are those limits? Fear of failure, another disappointment or maybe lack of self confidence? Everyone is entitled to their own interpretation of limitations, but one thing is for sure: they refrain us from changes, decisions. They paralyze our psyche not allowing our dreams come true.They make everything more difficult, unachievable. They stand in the way to achieve happiness and success. But is there any way to get rid of them?  Of course, but only if you really want it! Only you control, rule your brain. You set your boundaries. Discard fear, don’t be pessimist and do not be ashamed of who you are. Get what you want and show that you can. Forget about everything what refrain you, be brave! You think: „can not be”. That`s nothing, you will try again, again and again. Don’t be scared. You have one life, use it before will be too late!

Toxic world

Seven a.m. Day like everyday. I’m walking down the street again. And again I’m passing thousands of people. Thousands of people but everyone so alien, lonely, locked in their own world. I’m going further, passing crowd of people racing in various directions, don’t know why, don’t know where. Faster, faster, slapdash. Everybody think only about getting to office, school or anywhere else first so as only they were in hurry. Some men is shouting into the phone trying to change hour of his business meeting pushing at the same time woman who is just ordering new boots from the internet. The noise of cars, shouting people and  lots of colorful advertisements and billboards around, all this make me feel dizzy. I want to ask for direction but as an answer i hear: „i don’t have time”, „i’m in hurry” or false „I don’t know”. I’m going further. I’m passing women who is shouting at homeless men that he is bothering her and at the same time she is writting at her facebook that she supports so many charites. What an absurd. So many people but everybody is so lonely, live their life. Everybody close so as in a glass sphere, trying to isolate themselves from others. Sad. Soon will be eighth a.m. Good. Everyone soon will get where they were ruhing. They will close in their offices in their worlds and they will calmly wait till four p.m when they will be able to go out of their corporations. And again start to rush don’t know why, don’t know where. And I will be standing, watching them, trying to slow down to change them but will i manage to do it on time before toxic world pulls me into it’s vortex?

About me

Hi Everyone! I am normal girl  and I want to share with you my tips and ideas which can be useful for you. I would love to motivate you, help you to be more confident and force to reflection about life. Hope you will like it. Love you all, kisses Ola.